Opinion

Graphic Art by Juli Mondelo

Shifting to the Right Pace

By Julianna Mondelo | February 20, 2024

SOMEWHERE, someone is thinking of whether or not their decision was right, may it be a menial one or a life-changing one. Either way, life is complex and built by decisions, and it is up to you to take the risk or let the risk take you. 

College is a new beginning that comes pummeling out your door one day, barging in, screaming, “We’re closer to the real world now.” You might have conceded to that reality somewhere in senior high school as you listened to a career talk or your parents discussing what they wished for. If you follow that route, you decide what to pursue as time ticks, but that’s not only it. You have to agree on where, and there are countless factors you have to take in. No matter what you choose, you cross the threshold, embracing the new chapter in your journey. 

But what if one day, you wake up, and it all comes crashing down on you; what if you didn’t make the right choice? You’re in college now; it would be a waste not to pursue the program, right? Right?

Now you’re thinking, perhaps it’s fate, divine intervention, or something in common that led you there. Maybe you’ll learn to love the program with time. The thought will pass; a simple moment of weakness, probably. But what if the thought never stops? The dilemma thumps: to shift or not to shift; that is the question—that was my arduous experience. 

If you’re like me, who fears falling behind—being deemed a failure, it would be difficult to break free from the unrelenting pressure. Nevertheless, it was a risk I was willing to take, as after I mull over the situation, I felt that I could not see myself further pursuing this program. 

But you shouldn’t be afraid, even if the possibility of facing formidable challenges hits you. If your sudden urge to shift turns into longing, embrace the change ahead. If you truly desire that career path, you would be willing to do whatever it takes to achieve it. As they say, there is a way if there is a will. However, if you're still struggling with what to do, don't hesitate to reach out. Surround yourself with a positive support system. After all, I wouldn't be here if I hadn't sought advice from my family, peers, and professors.

The transition may be similar to navigating an unfamiliar environment as you interact with new classmates despite being on the same school grounds. It's like the first day all over again, but that adds to the excitement. I’m yet to prove myself since I’m still at the beginning, but unforeseen opportunities do come along the way.

Ultimately, you are the protagonist of your journey; you decide fate. Even if factors hinder you, college is no race; you set your pace. Whoever you are, I hope you find your pace.

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