ONE would strongly disagree that having proactive awareness of political and social trends is not an option but an obligation, at least nearly so for those who belong to the technologically literate generation. Everything that emerged from e-activism to sweeping hashtag campaigns has made people all across the board woke across cultural boundaries. At the same time, they aspire to be politically correct in modern ethical aspects and teach and correct their peers whose opinions they find repulsing. Nevertheless, it could be another challenge to endure in current times. How do you balance when the ideological backgrounds stand uncomfortably close to you —  when the family fails to align with your political beliefs?

It can be particularly challenging as a student at this time, especially when it comes to developing opinions that diverge from those held by our parents. I've found myself caught amid tension and a politically divided family. It has even reached a point where a constant barrage of controversial topics during family dinners and gatherings has been challenging to handle. Indeed, generational differences can be a factor in this conflict. 

During the 2022 Philippine Presidential Elections, I had a debate with some family members. Most of their stances were influenced more by the political family background and public reputation of the candidates rather than their actual qualifications and policies. Despite my urge to correct and educate them, I found it to be a daunting task to change their perspectives — people will always hold on to what they believe in. 

It is for me – for us to recognize that people, even our family’s political beliefs are shaped by their experiences, values, and perceptions of the world. We ought to understand their stances without necessarily agreeing with them. Communication is key; it will always be essential to engage in respectful dialogue. Being able to listen and learn from each other sets the boundaries to ensure discussions remain civil and constructive. 

It's essential to note the importance of thorough research in discerning the truth in differing opinions. While it is truly valuable to share our perspective with family members, it's best to do it with empathy and respect — acknowledging that each individual holds their own beliefs. I’ve learned over time that while political indifference may strain relationships, it should not overshadow the bonds of familial connection.