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Love Overdue: The Academic Love Affair

Graphic Art by Andrea Del Mar

By Angela Marie De Leon | February 15, 2024

DUE dates for academics are still on a student’s reminder list, but for some, dates are meant differently for this month of love, February. Love comes when you least expect it, they say. But being a learner will always be a priority. However, for some, love can no longer be denied, that’s when love and learning collide with one another.

Following the month of love, three students who are currently in a relationship were interviewed by THE BEDAN HERALD. They shared how they were able to enter into a relationship amidst all the challenges of being a college student. 

Juggling Academics and Relationships

Assurance and updating each other is the key for Mari Rico (IV-BSBA MM) in maintaining their relationship when the lack of time because of academics becomes an obstacle for them. But for Joanna Del Rosario (III-BACMS), a compromise was created in their relationship. “To really sit down, set a day where we will get to rest and spend it with each other,” she explained. Del Rosario added that your willingness to understand your partner is a must.

The 4 WHs of Dating

Going out for dates while studying is hard to add to a student’s daily schedule. But for people in a relationship, dating is essential to catch up and relive their love with each other again. Regardless of how, Nique Sagum (III-BSA) shared that in their relationship, dating may vary. “We do not usually date outside. We prefer to stay at home and rest together, which I personally consider as a date” she said. 

From a lover’s perspective

Undeniably, some students see relationships as a distraction or a difficult status to weigh with being a student. Assessing your readiness to enter into a relationship is fundamental. But, choosing your significant other is the critical part. Feeling in love was never a bad idea, maybe, all this time, the person is a bad idea. 

Valentine’s Day may only come once a year, but every day is a day that you might find your own Valentine. There is never a deadline when it comes to relationships, but surely your responsibility as a student is. 

Volume 29 | Issue 3